How Do I Get My Bf 2 Stop Smoking Weed?
how do i get my bf to stop smoking weed? and i think he even sold my ipod and cell phone to get money for weed cuz he doesnt have a job right now. he says he wants to adopt my daughter and stuff but he wont even quit smoking for me and he is 22.
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February 4th, 2010 at 6:52 pm
He’s not worth it, dump him and get a real man
February 5th, 2010 at 1:18 am
You can’t, unless you go with an ultimatum “it’s me or the weed” in which case, he might decide to go with the weed. He’s 22, old enough to make adult decisions, and although I don’t mind a someone smoking in moderation, if it’s interfering with his daily life, it’s a problem. It’ll be up to him to decide whether he wants to quit or not.
February 5th, 2010 at 2:02 am
You can’t make someone stop something that they don’t want to do.
I think you really really need to rethink about what you are looking for in someone. I would rethink your relationship with him. If I were you, I would end it. I went out with someone and then he told me he did. We ended our relationship. He had 4 children! It is not good for the kids to be around. They know more than you think and is that what you want your child to grow up around.
You deserve more respect. You are enabling him and his problem. I would not even think that he could adopt your child.
If I were you, he wouldn’t be my boyfriend, no matter how nice he was. That is not something I would want my child around.
February 5th, 2010 at 7:20 am
Let’s look at things now.He smokes weed,you think he sold your ipod and your cell phone and he doesn’t have a job? And you call this guy your boyfriend? Is this what you want for yourself and your daughter? A bum that’s living off of you at your own expense?If it were me,I’d madder than hell.Why are you wasting your precious life with a guy like this? Some one who would steal from you.In my opinion,you both need to get your priority’s straight.If he’s smoking pot,he’ll probably never get a job.He sounds immature and person that you can’t trust.Do yourself a favor and have some self respect,if not for you then for your daughter.What’s this guy have to offer you? Absolutely nothing! You need to open your eyes and see the light.I’m afraid your circumstances aren’t going to improve until you help yourself.Do something to change your life.There’s plenty of nice guys out there,he’s not the only one.If by 22 you don’t have a job chances are you never will,especially when your smoking weed.How can you even trust him?It sounds to me that your just settling.Make a move and improve your and your daughters situation.Do you really want someone like this to adopt your daughter? Come on use your head!
February 5th, 2010 at 8:52 am
try to scare him out of it.
But now we are stronger because of what we have been through. Maybe if you threaten to leave he will realize that he doesn’t want to lose you and give it up totally and your relationship will benefitt from it but if itdoesn’tt and you break up…you didn’tt need him anyways.
like threaten to leave him if he doesn’t.
I went through the same problem with my bf (he only did it a few times and didnt sell my stuff though) but he is only sixteen, but idk, sixteen year old’s may be easier to convincee than twenty two year olds but anyways…He knew that I was totally against it and he knew he had to choose and he chose me.
February 5th, 2010 at 2:03 pm
No way would I allow him to adopt your daughter, besides he can’t, he has to be married to you to do so and her biological father has to sign away parental rights for him to adopt her. There is no way I would marry a man who puts smoking dope ahead of everything else.
February 5th, 2010 at 5:44 pm
Weed isnt bad, but if he wants to get a job he needs to quit smoking because they usually drop you at most places before they hire you. Otherwise, tell him to start sellin it, hell make lots of money till he gets snitched on and end up on probation and then hell have to quit.
February 5th, 2010 at 6:02 pm
Uhh… I can tell you right now FOR A FACT that the problem is not how you can get him to stop smoking weed. You need to leave this jerk immediately. If he sold your stuff to get money for drugs, that’s definitely not the kind of person you want to have around your daughter.
February 5th, 2010 at 9:56 pm
i agree with most people that you should leave the guy. I mean, do you actually keep rubbish at home? Normally trashes belongs in the bin. Anyway, he could even sell your ipod and cellphone. The next thing he might sell is your house, your body and your daughter.
I bet you are a smart lady and know what’s best. There are so many other better guys out there, go scout for the right one.
February 6th, 2010 at 1:31 am
if he really loves you he will stop let him know that it bugs you and it will affect your guys relationship if he keeps with that and show him that he can really loose you if he wont ..
if he don’t love you he wont stop and there is nothing you can really do
February 6th, 2010 at 4:19 am
Really, i dont think theres much to do about it.
If hes selling your stuff WITHOUT your permission you need to dump him anyway.
I would approach him about it and if he still won’t quit dump him cause he has to be the one to make the choice. He has to want to quit.
February 6th, 2010 at 9:50 am
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Weed is hard to give up, I know..
Tell him how you feel, then if that doesnt work [it probably wont] you should take some time away from him and see how that makes him feel. Make him think that he’s losing you for a plant.
February 6th, 2010 at 11:30 am
If he is selling your stuff to buy pot, it’s time to get rid of him. You can’t make him stop smoking, just like you can’t make someone stop drinking. He has to make the choice himself.
February 6th, 2010 at 2:26 pm
don’t get back together with him until he stops for good. don’t give him sex, kisses, or your daughter (for sure) until he cuts it out! this is a dangerous habit that needs to be corrected immediately.
February 6th, 2010 at 7:47 pm
I’m sorry to say, but you can’t change him. Only you can change yourself. If the fact he smokes weed is harming you or your relationship you have every right to get out of there.
Good luck.
February 7th, 2010 at 1:35 am
Tell him that you don’t want a man that does it and if he’s not willing to quit for the relationship, then tell him you will leave him.
February 7th, 2010 at 4:35 am
tell him if he doesn’t stop smoking weed then you are going to break up with him, and if he doesn’t stop smoking weed then BREAK UP WITH HIM!! He’s obviously not a good influence on your child so do what’s best for you and your child.
February 7th, 2010 at 7:45 am
Tell him to stop? It’s the best way, you just have to talk to him about the future etc… Your daughter and the affects of it…
Or you could just break up if it’s that bad…
February 7th, 2010 at 11:36 am
Get a temporary restraining order to keep him away from you for a while. If he loves you as much as he says he does he will quit before the end of the restraining order.
February 7th, 2010 at 12:26 pm
Maybe you should let him be his self… Weed isn’t like alcohol (you dont act crazy after doing it, so what’s the problem?!?)
OR…
Leave him!
February 7th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
tell him to stop if not tell him to try leagal buds it has no weed but it has
herbs in it that will make it E-Zer For him to quit
February 7th, 2010 at 3:45 pm
offer support and a seek professional help
ur child comes first and u dont want here growing up with a step dad druggie
he had no right to sell ur property
last resort is to break up with him
February 7th, 2010 at 3:48 pm
tell him straight up that its not on.
why would you want your daughter around someone who takes drugs and is not financially stable??
Your way or the highway hon x
February 7th, 2010 at 7:42 pm
Dump his ***! He mistreated and disrepected your stuff, he’ll mistreat and disrespect you!
February 7th, 2010 at 9:37 pm
Wow he is really lazy.
He needs to know when going to far for weed is.
February 7th, 2010 at 10:46 pm
TURN HIM IN TO THE COPS he is a lawbreaker and you have no business hanging around such people
February 8th, 2010 at 5:34 am
well if he sold ur ipod and cell phone, he a loser. guy who need drug don’t need to be around your child. be careful
February 8th, 2010 at 9:38 am
Give him an ultimatum, this may work.
February 8th, 2010 at 2:32 pm
Leave the bum
February 8th, 2010 at 6:02 pm
tell him youself 2 stop smoking ….
February 8th, 2010 at 9:24 pm
because smoking weed is good and healthy to a point, lol ye tell him to stop….