How Can I Make My Fiance To Quit Smoking, Is It Ok To...
Im allergic to the smoke, i have high risk to get breast cancer because my mom, grandmother and great grandmother had it, i hate the smell, how can i obligate him to quit? We are getting married in couple months
4 Responses to “How Can I Make My Fiance To Quit Smoking, Is It Ok To Tell Him I Wont Have Sex Anymore With Him Until He Quits?”
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October 6th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
i wouldnt go that route, maybe you could use it as an incentive for when he does quit – i’ll do this when you stop smoking, you know, give him something positive to look forward to.
October 7th, 2009 at 12:35 am
And he recently started smoking, right? Because of course you wouldn’t start a relationship and get all the way to engagement with a man who smokes if you can’t tolerate smoke.
Secondhand smoke has no impact on your breast cancer risk, by the way. If you have that much of it in your family, you are about as high a risk as there is.
So if he just started smoking, it should be easy (relatively) for him to quit. Just ask him. If he has smoked since your relationship began, STFU and accept it.
October 7th, 2009 at 2:09 am
Umm if you withhold sex from him now what else are you going to be withholding from him in order to make him comply. Don’t play that game too much or you might lose at your own game
And what makes you women think that you can manipulate and change men. What if he said, “You will become a stripper or else I’m cheat on you and leaving you with the kids” now you wouldn’t like that now would you.
October 7th, 2009 at 3:49 am
Wow, all that stuff and he’s already your fiance. You should’ve gotten him to kick the habbit a long time ago.